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How to give good oral sex to a man? Who doesn’t know how to make a boy happy with oral sex? If you click on this article, you will find a treasure! In line with the principle of loving fans, today I will share what I have learned throughout my life without any secrets. Are you ready? Let's go!
01. Pay attention to hygiene
The reason why many people refuse oral sex is because they think the penis used for peeing is dirty and they feel that oral sex is unclean. There are indeed a lot of bacteria in the adult male penis, especially in the front coronal sulcus. Therefore, the penis needs to be cleaned carefully before oral sex. If the surrounding hair is too messy, it is best to correct the hair.
Compared with the penis, there are more bacteria in the mouth, so before oral sex, rinse your mouth with antibacterial mouthwash. Still, it is best not to brush your teeth to avoid rupture of the lining of the mouth and increase the possibility of infection.
Although oral sex can bring pleasure, Honeyloveyou does not recommend trying oral sex without a condom if the following two situations occur:
- Bleeding gums or oral ulcers on either side;
- Or either party has a genital infection (such as HPV infection, posthitis, vaginitis, or other contagious sexually transmitted diseases).
Of course, if your partner is not around, boys can use blowjob simulator to experience the feeling of oral sex, which is also a good choice.
02. Keep your mouth moist
During oral sex, it is best to put the penis into your mouth while your mouth is moist. Don’t worry if your mouth is not moist enough. This is normal. At this time, you can consider chewing gum and eating some sour fruits or candies containing xylitol to help your mouth secrete saliva.
Many people like to smear jam, drink it on the genitals, or hold it in their mouth during oral sex. Although this can increase the moistness of the mouth and make oral sex more interesting, it will increase the chance of infection. In this case, you can try to use some edible oral sex liquid. These oral sex liquids are generally water-based and can be cleaned with just water, which is also more convenient to clean.
03. Increase contact area
The more parts you touch during oral sex, the higher the pleasure will be. During oral sex, you can relax your tongue as much as possible, lick the other person's sensitive zone, then put the penis into your mouth, and rotate the head to allow his penis to rotate left and right in the mouth to increase the contact area. Don't lick too fast to make sure your teeth don't grind the penis.
Many people regard deep throating as the ultimate secret of oral sex and firmly believe that during deep throating, the throat will tightly wrap the penis like a condom to maximize the contact area, but this is not the case. The head of the penis relies on friction, not squeezing, for pleasure. In addition, when deep throating, its head will be stuck in the throat and unable to move, and it will not be able to create multiple pleasures through licking, sucking, and blowing like during ordinary oral sex. The physical stimulation that deep throating can bring is far inferior to the psychological stimulation.
In addition, oral sex is not just the simple contact of tongue and penis. In addition to sucking and licking, sucking and blowing can bring unexpected pleasure. You can try to hold it in your mouth first, cover its surface as closely as possible with your soft tongue, then slowly release it, lick the sensitive zone in a circular motion, and finally blow gently on the top. Repeating this cycle will give the other person a feeling of melting.
At the same time, you can try to touch the other person's sensitive zone with both hands and change the strength and frequency of the touch according to the other person's reaction. For example, gently wrap the testicles on both sides with your hands, feel the testicles gradually tightening, and then release your hands to stop stimulation. You can even try massaging the small G-spot behind your partner with your fingers while performing oral sex. In short, you can’t go wrong by “setting fire” to the other person’s sensitive zones as much as possible!
Contact during oral sex is not limited to physical contact, eye contact is also very important. When you're in love together, what's more exciting than your partner's provocative and loving eyes?
04. Maintain a relaxed and happy attitude
People will inevitably feel nervous when facing unfamiliar territory, and the same goes for trying oral sex. We need to understand each other and not feel upset or even angry about each other's tensions. At the same time, we must also give each other enough patience and time and learn to tolerate each other's imperfections. The experience of growing together may be more precious than a successful result.
Oral sex is for the pleasure of the process, not for the result of ejaculation. If you fail to ejaculate after oral sex, neither partner should feel anxious about it. Ejaculation is one expression of sexual pleasure, but it is not the only expression. If both parties experience pleasure during the oral sex, regardless of whether there is ejaculation in the end, the oral sex is a success.
Also, if you feel intense discomfort during oral sex, don't be afraid to say "no" and ruin the fun. Not everyone can handle the vomiting sensation caused by deepthroating, and not everyone can accept the smell of semen and swallow it. If you can't accept it, know that you have every right not to accept it. When you love others, you must also love yourself.
05. Give respect and understanding
Any interaction should be based on understanding and respect, and oral sex is no exception. There are countless techniques for oral sex, but one is like honey and another is like arsenic. Only the one that suits each other is the best. We are accustomed to seeing words such as "deep throat", "69" style, kneeling style, etc. in the topic of oral sex, but these techniques and positions are not suitable for all oral sex. Before oral sex, you can ask the other party what they like, what they don't like, what they can accept, and what they cannot accept, and then explore ways to make each other happy within the scope acceptable to both parties.
At the same time, you must understand that oral sex should not be just one person's pleasure, especially when you are in a state of confusion. Don't just indulge in your own pleasure and completely ignore your partner's discomfort or even pain. Any sexual relationship that only treats the other person as a tool for you to obtain pleasure, rather than as a subject who pursues pleasure like yourself, will only bring pain and exploitation.
Honeyloveyou friends, have you ever discovered any techniques that can make each other feel extra sexually excited during oral sex?
Let us enjoy love scientifically and healthily together!